In my 20s, I helped run a Saturday school for African/Caribbean children. It was totally independent, we had to raise our own funds. It was hard but so fulfilling, and feeling that we were educating the next generation really balanced out working for a stockbroking company that was all about money. We had a reunion recently and it was really moving, all the ex-pupils saying it had a really positive influence on them. That was one of the highlights of my life and I’m really proud of what we did. Currently I mentor young Black boys in Hackney.
I’ve always been into sport. I played golf for about 18+ years, and I was one of the early founder members of the African/Caribbean golf society. I‘ve been doing triathlons for the past eight years – and there aren’t many Black people doing that. I’m lucky to have the resources for things like golf and triathlons, which aren’t cheap. I also help run a group for polymaths – people who are curious about many things. I play the African drums, the guitar and the keyboards. I juggle and help run a group where we go to London parks and juggle and people can come and learn if they want to. I’m into art, mostly sketching and painting. I do other things but too many to mention! I’m not the type of person to just sit in front of the TV. I’ve taught my family, plus lots of adults and children how to do the Rubik’s cube – my son can do it in 24 seconds, my daughter in 27. I’m a slacker – it takes me 29.
I’m currently working as a Network Engineer and happily married for 21 years with two children in their early 20’s. I don’t see myself as middle aged – as recently I got a personal best doing a triathlon. Growing old at the moment so far is ok, as my body and my mind are still holding up. If you rewind, my dad didn’t do half the stuff I’m doing. It’s different times now, as we are able to do much more at this age than people used to.